Is this racist? a dispute between me and my boyfriends cousin?
Is this racist? a dispute between me and my boyfriends cousin?
I went to LA to my boyfriends neices 1st birthday party and his hole family cousins and everyone where there for my boyfriends sister who threw a cute party with pink baloons and her motherinlaw cook pozole gave out alot of drinks magheritas and coronas so we got a little drunk and we wher all having a good time having a covosation with my bf's cousin who is mexican her whole family are mexican and i am italian i was telling them how when i was little my mum threw me a cute party like this and we had like this jelly with frog and we call them frog in the pond with a fairy theme to it and she was all like aww how cute i bet you like had everything you wanted because your rich, and im like excuse me how would i be rich? and she said well your italian your white so your rich, and i took that so offensive first of all she obviously doesnt know anything about italians and i told her and even if i was rich that would be none of her business and no i am not rich my family struggle with money growing up and they worked hard trying to provide money for my family and she automaticaly looked at me like a spoiled white girl coz i am white, and then my boyfriend got mad at her and told her that is so stupid of you and you don't know anything about my girl and her family and she laughed and shes like well im just saying that is cute and ive never heard of fairys i thought it was like a rich thing? wtf how are fairys a rich thing? its a little kids thing do you think i am over reacting or do you think she was being rude on purpouse
Wow she sounds really close minded, and I agree with you fairies are not a rich people thing and everyone has a really cute birthday party when they were younger. Since she describes you as a 'rich white girl' I would probably say that she is most likely racist either that or she is just really judgemental to anyone who she believes needs judgement. Well if its any consolation I dont think you sound like a spoiled rich girl...but maybe be nice to her. Like if you see her again just greet her with a warm smile and be like 'hey we got off on the wrong foot' or something along those lines. I know that sounds kind of lame but I'm a big believer in giving people a second chance, and she is a ***** a second time then just avoid her at all costs.
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